When a loved one transitions into a memory care community, families often feel a mix of relief and uncertainty. You may feel reassured knowing your parent or spouse is receiving 24/7 professional care, but you might also wonder: “How can I still be supportive now that I’m not providing care at home?”
The truth is, your role remains just as important. While caregivers handle daily needs, your presence, involvement, and love continue to provide comfort and connection. At Silverado, we encourage families to stay engaged in ways that make their loved one feel supported and valued.
Why Family Involvement Still Matters
Even with expert care, family plays a unique and irreplaceable role in a loved one’s life. Your support can:
- Provide emotional reassurance in a new environment
- Maintain important connections and shared memories
- Reinforce their sense of identity and belonging
- Build trust between your family and the care team
At Silverado, we see families as partners in care, working together to create the best possible quality of life for residents.
Visit Regularly, but Focus on Quality
Regular visits are one of the most meaningful ways to show support. The frequency depends on your loved one’s comfort level and stage of dementia, but quality matters more than quantity.
Tips for visits:
- Keep them calm, positive, and unrushed
- Join in on activities such as music therapy or meals
- Bring a book, photo album, or keepsake to spark connection
- Stay flexible—sometimes a short, gentle visit is best
Silverado encourages open visitation so families can be present in ways that work best for their loved ones.
Stay Connected Between Visits
Even when you’re not physically present, small gestures can go a long way. Consider:
- Sending cards, letters, or photos that staff can share with your loved one
- Dropping off familiar items like a favorite blanket or snack
- Using video calls if appropriate and supported by the community
- Sharing stories or updates with caregivers so they can spark conversations
These efforts remind your loved one they are still part of your daily life.
Participate in Community Life
Many memory care communities, including Silverado, invite families to be part of activities and events. Joining in can help your loved one feel supported and provide opportunities for joyful shared experiences.
Ways to get involved:
- Attend holiday celebrations or themed events
- Join group activities such as music, art, or gardening
- Volunteer or spend time interacting with other residents
This not only strengthens your bond but also helps you become part of the community your loved one now calls home.
Support Their Emotional Well-Being
Moving to memory care can be an adjustment. Residents may feel uncertain, sad, or even resistant at first. Your emotional support can make a big difference.
Try to:
- Acknowledge their feelings without judgment
- Provide reassurance that they are safe and cared for
- Focus on familiar routines and comforting activities
- Celebrate small victories, like adjusting to a new group activity
Silverado’s caregivers partner with families to help residents feel secure, valued, and understood during this transition.
Take Care of Yourself, Too
Being supportive doesn’t mean doing everything. It’s important to care for your own health and emotional well-being. Memory care is designed to give families relief from daily caregiving demands so you can focus on your relationship.
Self-care may include:
- Joining caregiver support groups
- Taking breaks without guilt
- Staying connected with hobbies, friends, and routines
- Seeking guidance from professionals when needed
At Silverado, we provide resources and family support programs to help caregivers navigate this new chapter with confidence.
Final Thoughts
When your loved one moves into memory care, your role as a supporter, advocate, and companion remains vital. By visiting regularly, staying connected, and participating in community life, you can continue to provide the love and reassurance they need.
Silverado’s communities are designed not only to support residents but also to support families. Together, we create an environment where both loved ones and caregivers can thrive.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
1. How often should I visit after my loved one moves to memory care?
It varies for each person. Regular visits are encouraged, but frequency should balance reassurance with allowing your loved one to settle into their new routine.
2. What if my loved one becomes upset after visits?
This is common, especially early on. Shorter visits, calm interactions, and guidance from caregivers can help make visits smoother.
3. Can I bring personal belongings to their new home?
Yes. Familiar items such as photos, blankets, or keepsakes can provide comfort and help create a sense of home.
4. How does Silverado involve families in memory care?
Families are encouraged to visit, participate in activities, and stay connected with staff. Silverado provides ongoing updates and welcomes family involvement.
5. What if I feel guilty about no longer being the primary caregiver?
It’s normal to feel this way. Remember that choosing memory care ensures your loved one receives professional support while allowing you to focus on quality time together.
